Saturday, October 31, 2009

Pinless Cushion

I haven't sewn since Wil and I got married, but I recently got the itch to work on a sewing project. This week, I went and got material, and this morning I washed and ironed it for my project. Let's see...do I have everything I need?

Fabric - washed, dried and ironed: Check!
Pattern: Check!
Fabric scissors: Check!
Seam ripper - for when I will undoubtedly mess up: Check!
Sewing machine: Check!
Pin Cushion: Check...


Wait...what's wrong with this picture? I guess my project will have to wait a little longer...

Boy Girl Differences

Today's lesson is on the differences between girls and boys. There are many differences between boys and girls...for instance...

The way I carve a pumpkin...


That would be with a knife.

Ahem...the way Wil carves a pumpkin...


Yes, that's a drill.

It's not really breaking, there's just duct tape all over it to make the guys at work think it's breaking so no one will steal it.

And, that concludes today's lesson on the differences between girls and boys; please tune in next time!

Saturday, October 24, 2009

The Motherload!

Every October, Wil's work has a huge picnic for all of its employees. There are tons of fun things for the kids to do - face painting, balloon animals, snow cones, games with prizes, characatures, a puppet show...and there are fun things for the people working for the company. They all put their name in a hat and stand around in a huge group waiting for their name to be called so they can win one of the many cool prizes up for grabs.

Last year, I watched a guy come back with an Eddie Bauer camping tent then he went back and eventually came back with his second prize, a drill. I texted Wil, certain that he must have won something cool...what'd you get? The sullen reply...a thermos!

This year, lady luck was on his side and he won the best prize he's ever gotten at the work picnic...


Yes, my friends, in that box is a Dewalt, 36 volt drill and reciprocating saw! Wil's exact words..."I've never even seen one of these at the store...the first time I saw one was about four months ago at work and the guy bought it online!"


So...we looked it up...the price for one of these bad boys? About $700! That SO makes up for the thermos he won last year!!! Life is good, my friends. :-)

Road Construction

Our ward Halloween party was last night!

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

One Hundred

Today is my great grandma's birthday! She would have been 100 years old. I have a lot of great memories of my great grandma, but those will have to wait for another day.

Someone once described my great grandma as classy, and I've never been able to come up with a better way to describe her. Classy describes someone who is kind, caring, tough, and elegant all in one neat little package of a word. By example, my great grandma taught me resilience, that nothing is more important than family, and that no matter what happens it will all be better by the time you're a grandma.

Someday, I will figure out how to use the scanner on our printer
so the photos won't be so blurry! That day, however, is not today.


Things I am grateful I will never have to do because she did:
  • I will never have to apply for a United States green card or citizenship
  • I didn't have to sail across the ocean at the age of 16 to find a better life
  • I hope to never have to live through a world war or a fear that the airplane I hear over my home is about to drop a bomb
  • I hope to never refrain from taking photos of my children for fear someone would think we were suspicious because we come from a different country
  • I seriously doubt Wil will ever be arrested and subsequently spend a year in jail for making moonshine (ok, so I know her going through this in no way was a sacrifice for future generations, but it makes for a great story!)
There's a wedding photo of my great grandma and grandpa that has been hanging in my grandma's house since I was a little girl. From the time I was old enough to understand the Great Depression, I've looked at that photo and the date inscribed underneath it - August 1929 - in wonder. Her and my great grandpa were married just two months before the stock market crashed, ushering in the Great Depression.

It's funny how history repeats itself, and I got married just a few months before the United States entered the greatest recession since the Great Depression. I have to say there have been times in the past year when I have listened to all of the seemingly bad economic indicators and thought, if my great grandma could make it through the Great Depression, then we will make it through this easily. We will still have fun, enjoy life, start a family and do all of the things that she was able to do in world conditions that seemed even worse than they do now. It's comforting to have such a great example and gives me hope that one day, I will be able to be just a portion as tough as she was!

Happy birthday, great grandma!

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Everything I Know About Marketing, I Learned From Cake Decorating


Taking a cake decorating class is something I’ve wanted to do since college, but just recently made the time to do. As I decorated my final cake and finished my second class, I discovered there are many parallels between cake decorating and marketing. I am willing to bet that if you look close enough, these same parallels apply to almost any job that requires both precision and creativity.

Making frosting is a necessary evil.

I LOVE making pretty flowers, fancy borders and fun characters. I HATE making the frosting. Sifting the sugar, measuring out the ingredients, mixing – BORING! But, it’s also the single most important thing you do when decorating a cake. It’s a process that has to be exact – add just one extra teaspoon of water and the frosting is useless.

How much of marketing is like this? Conducting research, planning, and creating all of the backup materials and documentation isn’t always the most glorious part of a project. They don’t look beautiful or generate praise in the hallways, but without these steps, the project won’t accomplish the purpose it was designed to accomplish. It will eventually take up residence in the trash can.

A flower is rarely perfect on the first try.

As I learned how to make each flower, I discovered my own ways of perfecting the technique. It took a little time and massaging to get it right, but eventually I found the best way to achieve the result I wanted.

Like cake decorating, marketing lives somewhere between science and art. While experience has taught us the basic concepts and techniques, each project takes a bit of massaging along the way to get it just right. That’s what I love about it. If I had wanted something more concrete, I would have been a mathematician.

Just because it’s pretty doesn’t mean it tastes good.

Fondant, the kind of frosting that is completely smooth and is laid on a cake rather than spread, is a decorators dream. It makes a cake look beautiful and sophisticated at once. The problem with fondant is that most of the time it tastes awful. While fondant is prettier, I’ll choose a cake with butter cream frosting almost every time.

Likewise, some of our most creative work doesn’t accomplish what we think it will. It can be difficult to acknowledge the more attractive work isn’t accomplishing its purpose and to move on to something else, but you have to decide whether you want to create campaigns that work or campaigns that simply look pretty.

A little praise goes a long way.

Last class, my instructor complimented me on one of my flower techniques. I felt like the best cake decorating student in the entire world and decided to take the next class from this instructor.

Make people feel good about themselves and they are 100 times more likely to do what you ask them. That goes for both the people you supervise and the people you are trying to sell your product or service.

As Julia Child would say, “Find something you’re passionate about and keep tremendously interested in it.”

What are you passionate about in your spare time? Have you found any parallels that have helped you at work? Share below.

Why Isn't My Press Release Getting Any Press?


I’ve heard this question too many times to count, and chances are that every PR practitioner has been on the asking end a time or two. But before you bemoan the journalist who has a beef with your organization or complain about the reporter who just doesn’t get it, ask yourself the following questions:

Is it local?
This is probably one of the simplest questions you will ask yourself, but it’s also one of the most important. If the story is obviously local – for instance, something about a parade taking place in Eloy, Arizona – proceed to question two. If the local tie is not as obvious, you’ll need to be a bit more creative. And if you can’t find a local tie, chances are the story will not be picked up.

Is it urgent?
Evergreen stories are great, and I love reading them. The trouble is there’s no immediate incentive for reporters to write about them. If the story you’re pitching doesn’t have a natural deadline, try creating one by adding a recent statistic or by tying the story to recent events.

Is it human?
Just about any story you can think of will be more likely to get coverage if there is a human angle. Is it a story about a new technology, program or donation? Then talk about the people who will benefit and how their lives will improve. Better yet, ask one of those people to share a story of how they will benefit.

Is this the right person to pitch?
With today’s ever-shrinking newsroom, the reporter you’ve pitched in the past might no longer cover the same beat or even work at the paper. Do your research to make sure you’re pitching the person who will actually care about what you’re saying.

Is this the right outlet to pitch?
Not every announcement is worthy of The Today Show or the New York Times, but chances are your news will be a good fit somewhere. Have you tried pitching the town newspaper, a local blog, a trade publication, or simply posting it to the company web site, Facebook page or Twitter account?

Does it matter?
As one local journalist says: “If it sounds like PR, then it’s BS.” Just because your client or boss thinks it’s a great story, does NOT mean the story is important to anyone else. This can be tough to explain to the person who pays your salary, so you might have to go digging to give the story purpose. Is there a recent study or trend you could leverage? Is there someone who will benefit from this news that can lend a voice to the story or someone local who was involved in creating the news you can profile? Provide this context, and your story will take shape.

The Inside Lane

My work, E.B. Lane, recently started a blog called The Inside Lane. It's become the new status symbol at work to be published on the blog, so I decided I just had to write a post. They published the first one and I went merrily on my way, but then other people started getting their second post published and I got jealous! So, I wrote a second one...about cake decorating, and it was published earlier this week. HOORAY, I'm SO COOL, well at least until other people start getting their third post published. :-)

I'm going to post my two work blog posts here. You by no means have to read them (since they are about public relations and marketing, and probably not interesting to the average person), I just want to post them so that when I print this blog out as a book, I will have them...and some day when I have children, they will know that at one point in my life I was smart, even if I no longer know anything.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

The Dremel

After we went hiking yesterday, we stumbled across a community garage sale in Arrowhead Ranch. We came away with a few great purchases, including a mirror so Wil can start cutting his hair outside instead of in the bathroom (hooray!).

But by far the best purchase we made was this...


It's a rotary tool, commonly known as a dremel. I think I'm in love. This beautiful dremel just made our chair and bench sanding project that we've been working on for a while not nearly as daunting! Sanding the flat part is easy, and kind of fun...until now, sanding the curvy parts has been a dreaded challenge that we've been avoiding. But, no longer! I see marital feuds over who gets to use the dremel in our near future! :-)


Seriously, the coolest sanding tool since the invention of the sander...maybe even cooler! That's all for now...I think it's my turn to use our new toy!

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Sheets

What happens at the Gonzalez house when it's late and we realize as we're going to bed that we haven't put the clean sheets on the bed?


We have a sleepover in the living room with the mattresses from the spare room. :-)

Memory, Part Dos

Thanks for all the great questions! Here are our answers (for the record, he's laying on the floor next to me, so I'm writing my answer and then asking him and he's answering, so neither of us know what the other person said/will say).

When did we first say I love you?
J - We were at the park...Sahuaro Ranch Park, I think...sitting on a picnic table when we first said I love you to each other. Wil said it first.
W - The day before Jessica left to go back to Utah, at Sahuaro Ranch Park, sitting on a bench. We went to Olive Garden for dinner for Vivi's birthday and then to the park. Jessica was wearing a white shirt - like the red one from our first date but white.

How long did it take him to kiss you?
J - WAY too long. :-) Actually, I think it ended up being just the right amount of time so I was ready. I don't remember when it was, although we tried to calculate it at one point. We went to Sahuaro Ranch Park (are you sensing a theme) and I thought he's going to kiss me, I totally want him to kiss me, and then I would freak out and look away. So he actually kissed me after we came home, sitting on my grandma's couch. And he asked if he could kiss me first, like a gentleman - because I wouldn't look at him because I was nervous! :-)
W - A long time.

When did Wil first meet your roommates?
J - The first time he came to Utah. We went back to my apartment and I introduced him to my roommates.
W - My first trip to Utah, we went to Jessica's apartment right after the fair (side note from Jessica: we met Lili, Lalo, Arlene, Clarisa and Adaly at the fair, that was the first time I met them)...I think...I can't remember if Angela was there, I'm not sure which ones I met that night. If not, it was at the Olive Garden for Alison's birthday.

Was Deidre expecting her second son William at our wedding?
J - I'm not sure if she was or not, BUT she had not announced it yet, if she was. That did not happen until after we were married, and she announced it on her blog. I was sitting at this very computer, at this very desk when I read about it. :-)
W - That's a great question. I have no idea.

Alright, now you get to vote who wins...I think I remembered all the answers, but Wil remembered the most details...any other questions?